Thursday, 2 January 2014

The Happy Prince and other short stories....


“Aren’t you feeling cold?”
“I guess, I am used to it”, he smiled. 

I looked at his frail structure. The tall, lean, bearded man stood right in front of me, his long mane touching his shoulders, his body wrapped in a light cotton shawl and a very modest dhoti.

The moon-clad starry sky, the dazzling street lights and the rattling bells of the horse-carts driving past, infused so much life into the huge white building facing us, that one would mistake it for a lovely lady, wearing a white evening gown, flaunting the hair accessory adorning her bun and bestowing upon the surroundings all her gorgeousness.

“It must be the lady’s charm keeping you warm”, I joked.
He nodded in denial. “It is the warmth of this city, I suppose”, he added.

I left. I wished I had woollens to wrap him with. It was a cold December evening.

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In the midst of the sound of the hooves, his figure emerged. The man on a galloping horse. “Ah! You make a warm happy sight, unlike your friend whom I just met. Atleast, you have a proper shawl around you and a horse to rest your butt on. Noile ei sheetey thhaye dnariye thaka.....”, I muttered. And, I know that I totally sounded like a true blue-blooded Bong whose most-used sentence throughout the winter is: “Thhanda lege jabe” (You’ll catch cold).

As I took the road on my right, I realised that the two men I just met one after another had a strong, bomb-astic connection.  : )

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From the next signal, I headed straight towards office. (In Calcutta, we prefer calling crossings ‘signals’.)
The strong sturdy bespectacled man stood right in front of me. “He should have been somewhere close to the High Court”, I told myself, given the fact that he was the chief architect of the gospel of Indian law.

His neighbour sported a funny turban and a funnier moustache. Not many people know that he was a lawyer too.

*****
I moved forward.
When I first saw him, I was a little girl. Ma told me that he was the founder member of the college she went to. I asked her if he was a Bengali. He wore a turban like non-Bengalis do. 

Ma always spoke very highly of him while Joydeep often joked that it is because of people like him, “toder eto baar bereche...”.  (This roughly translated means: The man showed the path, you followed it and went too far....beyond control).

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“Same for you. I always thought you were not a Bengali. The beard, the way you dress are so not Bong”, I told him. “We have non-Bengali actors who share similar surnames.” The statement sounded so juvenile and stupid that we both laughed.

“You write well”, I told him. (He was waiting all his life for this one certificate from me!!) The genius flashed a smile.

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“Aren’t you lucky? I mean, a human born to a Royal Bengal Tiger! You are one of a kind, do you realise that? ”I said and ran away.

Who would dare to joke with a tiger cub? Not me.

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And then, I saw her. I see her every day. Every time, I see her, my head bows down in veneration. The lady reminds me of my maternal grand mom....a school teacher from East Bengal who was an epitome of strength, courage and knowledge. If my Dimma was born a few decades ago, she could have also fought for the country’s independence. I am so sure about that.

I just stared at her in awe for some time. (I have a dream. Someday, we two will have a rendezvous...one of the very few, where I won’t talk. I will sit and listen and she will tell me about her childhood, of her growing up and everything it took in the making of the very brave women that she is.)

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It is by sheer coincidence, that the only other woman standing in the crowd also reminded me of my grandmother. My paternal grand mom.  They both hail from a small town called Tamluk in Medinipur.

Strangely, the two women I met had one thing in common. They embodied fire, nurtured it and spread it here, there, everywhere. I was almost going to ask her if she was feeling cold (given that she is old and clad in a crinkled Khadi saree) when I remembered that it is she who lights fire in the branches of the Krishnochura trees on either side of the Red Road and fills my journeys to the office with hues of blood, oranges and sunshine.... every single summer-morning. Every.

While I was leaving I whispered to her, “Vande, Materam are two of my favourite words too. They are music to the ears.”

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Every time I meet these men and women, my heart is filled with an apprehension that they remain unguarded. Some of them are old. They need to be safe and secure. Then, I see the two soldiers with huge guns, standing at the end of the road and I am assured that they are in safe hands.

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I took a few steps forward and I was greeted by a whirlpool of energy. I knew of him since I was a child. Whenever someone accused my paternal grandfather for his untainted loyalty towards Mohanbagan club, given that he was from East Bengal, Dadai used to give example of this gentleman. Like my Dadai, he had his roots in East Bengal (Bangladesh) but his claim to fame was through a football club of West Bengal. Dadai was a huge fan and I vaguely remember some “Great Wall of China” simile being drawn when spoken of this man. I was also told that he played football bare feet against the Inrej and won. Some Lagaan-type story, which I haven’t judged the truth of!

Could my grandfather ever guess that the grand daughter would get to meet him everyday?

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The husband is a staunch atheist. Had it not been for this man, I would have accepted his claim of being a non-believer.

My father isn’t an atheist. His reliance that this man was God, reaffirms my belief in the preceding paragraph.

Yes, I get to greet Him six days a week. But I don’t. Because, the greatest attribute of this man, apart from his Godliness is: He is one of the very very very few men in the entire Universe so huge, who leaves me speechless. Every time. Always.

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With the decreasing distance between my workplace and me, I met three more gentlemen.

The first among them and I belong to the same profession. You remember the first two men I spoke about in this writing? This gentleman too, has a bomb-bastic connection with the two of them.

My earliest memory of this man is a conversation I had with Baba ages back. I was a kid. We were crossing the Kalighat Bridge in an auto on our way to Rashbehari. I folded my hands in prayer when I saw a huge temple on the right. Baba told me that this is the Keoratola Burning Ghat and not the Kalighat temple. “If there is no Kali thakur in this temple, what have they made this temple for?” I asked Baba, in utter surprise. What Baba told me filled me with unfathomable awe. He said that this temple was built in the memory of a Bengali gentleman. The then-Chief Minister of Bengal sold photographs of this man with two lines written on them by a Noble Prize winner for one Rupee and the temple was built entirely from public funds collected in the process. 

I still vividly remember the two lines...”Enechile sathe kore mrityuheen pran, morone tahai tumi kore gele daan”. I had goose bumps hearing the story. I had goose bumps while writing about it.

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I finished some pending assignment in office and headed towards home. I took the road which leads to Babughat. He stood near the front gate of the Calcutta High Court. I have friends and relatives from the same province in Bangladesh where he was born. Almost seventeen years before India was actually independent, this man and his men conquered their hometown and declared it independent for an entire day! Isn't that cool? 

There are innumerable stories of his valour and gallantry. Every time I see him and his neighbour I wonder why people brand Bengalis as fainthearted.

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His neighbour stood a few miles apart. I think that the young man is the strongest exception to a Bengali’s so-called nervous, cowering image. He is also one of the very few Bengali men (and perhaps the youngest also) who has an entire song written after him.

He reminds me of the “Happy Prince” whose Swallow, I secretly wish to become....some day, so that, when God asks his Angel to bring for him the two most precious things from this city, we two could be the chosen ones. 

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The epilogue:

As little children, we used to play “Goooo Statue”. I was a very talkative child and friends and cousins often played this game to make me freeze at one place. They would “statue” me and not say “over” for a long long time. In those speechless, motionless moments, I almost felt breathless.

I wonder how these men and women manage their eternal “Goooo Statue” act. I gaze at them in awe and love. We have developed a bond very strong in all these years of my office-journeys.

Once someone asked me, “Which is that one thing in your city with which you identify yourself the most?” There was a Tsunami of answers in my mind. In the end, I told him, “The statues on my way to office.” Kolkata is the only place in the world, where I can “goooo statue” myself for an eternity.....speechless, motionless.

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Monday, 23 December 2013

Alcha..

This is a long pending post. (I love this sentence; every time I use it, I get a feeling that the whole world was waiting for this post with nail-chewing breathlessness).

I have been to Alcha umpteen number of times. And, with every visit, the heart grows fonder. I mentally wished to write about them the same umpteen number of times, but a gentleman called Procrastination would wind my fingers with bright red ribbons and tie cute little bows (which I generally refuse to untangle).

A few days back, a friend went to Shantiniketan and posted photos of Alcha café. Let me add to this post, at the very outset that Alcha has two sections, a store and a café. I enquired if she visited the store as well. She fell from up-above-the-world-so-high and answered in negative.  I was determined that I would wash my hands of her. I mean, the store and the café are in the same compound and how could one miss either of the two?

Being the generous soul that I am, I dropped the idea of disowning the otherwise wonderful friend of mine and decided to write this post on my favourite store (I wonder how photo pe aisi baat mein dabake chali aayi for so long).

Alcha is a quaint little shop in Ratanpalli, Shantiniketan (5 minutes ricksaw-ride from the University campus; Phone : 0346-364-5272). The narrow dusty road is ornamented by Krishnochura (Gulmohar) trees on its sides. (In the picture however, you can hardly see flowers; you can spot two or three monkeys instead.)

Alcha is as beautiful as its name suggests. The whole compound is layered with shades of greens and pinks. Madhobilota (Rangoon creeper) and Bougainvillea grow here in abundance.


The moment you open your shoes and step onto its red cemented floor, you are transported to a different world. Weaves of various kinds greet you at the entrance. The weaver bird’s nest turned into a lamp and left-over kantha and khhesh fabrics mounted on the wall will instantly woo you with their simplicity. 


What awaits you is the Wonderland of Alice. At every nook and corner, you will find indigenous hand crafted items…. fabric ornaments, Dokra/ beaded jewelry, kantha bags and batuas, block printed and batik sarees, ready-made printed blouses, gamchha and khhesh curtains, cushion covers, wall hangings, fridge magnets from left over fabric, lamp shades, jewelry boxes, coconut shell candles, handmade soaps and the list is as long as “office-time-e-Metror-ticketer-line”. (Their in-house label is known “Abokaash” meaning ‘leisure’)


The first thing that invariably catches my attention every time I visit them, is their ornaments section. Their fabric-ornaments and Dokra pieces are innovations at their best. 


I saw this cute little butterfly and caught it with my camera lens. What a pretty sight it made!

The dupattas, stoles and blouses are stacked in big cane baskets. The readymade blouses are pocket friendly, priced mostly at a humble 350. You get halter-necks, boat-necks, t-shirt necks, knotted backs and many more….quirky, kitsch, stylish.

The Khhesh fabric has been put to use by Alcha in all its possible forms….sarees, curtains, cusion covers, bags, boxes and bedspreads. The same story holds good for Kantha.  


Alongside sarees, Alcha also has a wide range of apparels for men, women and kids. Their leather products are unusually beautiful.


Their home accessories section is on the first floor. They have beautiful hand painted mirrors, ceramic crockery sets, kantha lampshades, Patachitra-painted boxes, handmade paper wall hangings, cushion covers, quilts and curtains of various colours and textures. Mind-blowing collection and must-must-must-buy stuff.







Their collection of soft toys-turned-fridge-magnets-turned-tabletop-decorations is terribly cute and you would go mad at the profusion of choices. Their assortment of wrapping papers, mostly block-printed old newspapers, also stands out in the crowd.


Go. Visit Alcha. Just stroll in the store, bask in the beauty of their hand-crafted products, buy if you like and then head straight to their café. The café has a tiny bookstore which lends you books to read while you gorge yourself with a fat and fluffy omelet and take sips from the steaming cup of chaa.

Aaah! Abokaash, at its best…. : )      

Photographs: Author's own :D

Tuesday, 26 November 2013

Importance Of Color Play In The Bedroom

If home is where the heart lies, bedroom is where the soul rests…(no, not in peace, but peacefully).

My bedroom walls had the same colour as those at my parents’ place. Mellow Yellow. (Nah, the idea wasn’t lifted from the latest home-paints TV commercial; the marriage happened years back). Happy walls teamed with happy curtains.

I love bright colours and JD likes earthy hues. Our bedroom is a blend of both. So, is the fourth wall that stands apart from the other three. It is painted bright orange on two sides while the portion in between is sanded. “The caramel-coloured granules shall remind us of the sea,” he said, while choosing the wall-texture. All the furniture in our bedroom is wooden…from wall cabinets to the book ends.











In contrast to the wooden furniture, everything else is bright and colourful. This particular bedcover was a gift and is my recent favourite. The cushion covers and the bedspreads are generally (read always) vibrant and multihued. I especially love those which are handcrafted from various provinces of India, like Kantha, Batik, Kalamkari, Bagru, Ajrak or Madhubani. (I have self-painted Madhubani cushion covers as well :D ) 






Self-made reminds me of “haar din D.I.Yali”. The plant holders on my window-sill are made of disposed-of beer bottles and left-over fabrics hijacked from my tailor. The bedside lamp is a remnant of a ‘high-spirited’ evening. I have made lampshades with spare fabrics (when I got bored, I used one for a flower vase). And no, those fancy Gerberas are rare guests. On good mood days, I put vermilion-red Ixora flowers from the garden.




My dressing-table is a palette with colours thrown all over….the bangles, the beaded neckpieces, the ‘pen-pencil-kohl-brushes-jurapin’ holder (made by a friend from a disposable coffee-cup) and the Kashmiri papier mache jewelry box.

The framed pictures are monochromes to balance the overdose of colours everywhere. JD and I believe, “when we are hungry, love and cinema will keep us alive.” Hence, a collage of favourite movie stills (yes, we are weird), a collage of the room-mates and a collage that looks like his first letter and reads his name. (my favourites: J – a pelican’s wide open beak, D – my coffee-mug’s handle, P – a monkey’s coiled tail)….Haan haan, woh jahan khhatam hoten hein, hum wohi se shuru hoten hein…. :D      
  
(PS: The most important colour in one’s bedroom is love. The rest can be managed.)



This post is a part of the Fab Blogger contest by FabFurnish.com, India's largest online home store. Get the best deals for bedroom furniture, wall clocks and bed sheets online.   [Word limit: 400 words]



Saturday, 23 November 2013

Hoogly and the Howrah Bridge...


There are times when Baba and I go to office together.  We cross Babughat. On the left, the river flows. If Hoogly was a woman, Howrah Bridge could easily be her crown.  

One day, I was checking my phone, as our car drove past Babughat. Baba snapped at me, “Sharadin phone niye ki khutur khutur korish? Jaanla diye baire-ta dyakh na!” (What are you doing with that silly phone? Just look out of the window and see.)
It was perhaps the nth time, I was crossing Babughat. “What is there to see, Baba? I see this everyday! The same river. The same Howrah Bridge.”
“So? Just because you see it every day, does that make it any less special?”
True.

Also, that answers a lot of other important questions of life.
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A month back, I went to a salon. One of those unisex ones. The woman who was attending me smirked and remarked, “That guy there, Ma’am, is constantly staring at you.”
I turned around and saw him. *maan mein laddoo futa? Haan haan*
I feigned displeasure. “You must go and tell him that I am married and my husband is here. So he better be careful.”
The woman:  You are married!!! (She Google-searched the vermilion at the middle parting of my head and failed).
“Yes. Of course, I AM married. And, to that man who is oggling at me!” I started giggling (I‘ll tell you how. Say Farhan Akhtar asks me out. It was that giggle).

6 seconds silence and then, the woman said, “That’s your husband! You must have got recently married. Let your marriage pass a few more years, you will see how men change. They don’t stare at their wives like this.”

I did not correct her. I, in fact, did not say a word. One can’t blush and talk at the same time, no?
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In all these seven years of being married and the double-of-seven years of being together, we have given each other almost every possible DIY gift that can be given to each other (Okay, leave the baby part out of the DIY list). I have run out of ideas and hence breakfast was the only thing I could come up with. Silly juvenile things. They don’t fill the stomach. They just manage to fill the heart, nevertheless.


(This also reminded me of a childhood song. Our bus-conductor kaku from the school bus used to sing this: “Dekha hein peheli baar, Saajan ki ankho mein pyar. Dim pauruti. Dim pauruti”.…the last two words in lieu of the music.)  
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Anniversaries are like the last line of the “tiffin-prayer” we used to say in school before eating lunch. ‘Thank you God for everything’.  
In my case, neither is JD God, nor has he given me everything. So I may say: Thank you for being my food, clothes and shelter. (Ugh, “my food” sounds raunchy.) Therefore correction: Thank you for being home. (Now, that sounds perfect.)  : )
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Tuesday, 5 November 2013

The Farewell

Madhumita stared at her daughter. She stared ceaselessly…like there was no tomorrow.

She saw the preparations being made. She decided to sit still and watch her little girl get ready. Strangely, even at 28, daughters are little girls for their mothers.

Madhumita’s sister draped the saree. The blood red silk with its thick golden border dazzled. (Every time Madhumita would help her daughter wear a saree, she would complain, “Ma, I am looking so fat! Look at the pleats, Ma! You don’t know anything. Mashi does it so much better”. ) This time, Madhumita obliged and let her sister do it.

Once the saree was draped, one of her cousins brought a bowl of sandalwood paste. Little dots of chandan were put on the two sides of the red bindi, around the curves of the eyebrows. The sight of her daughter’s forehead transported Madhumita to days when the daughter was five or six. She would take her mother’s dupatta, drape it like a saree, make a paste with talcum powder and water and with the butt of a match stick, she would put white dots on her forehead. Decking up like a bride was her favourite game which gave way to “teacher-teacher” once she grew up a little. (Madhumita also remembered how her daughter drooled over her lipsticks. Since she was not allowed to use them, the naughty little girl would ask her mother to kiss her on the lips so that a tinge of colour could pass onto her baby lips too. She wanted to consume paan for the very same reason. Her daughter loved red lips.)

Once the chandan was done, one of the relatives got alta and started putting the red liquid on the circumference of her daughter’s feet. On normal occasions, her daughter would jump and shriek at the tickle, but today, she was a quiet, well behaved ‘lokkhi meye’.

Her daughter was all decked up and ready to leave. A big Rajanigandha garland was put around her neck, adding to the finishing touch.

Madhumita could hear someone asking, “Has everyone arrived? It’s getting late. We must start now.” Her brother pointed out that the packet of khhoi (popped rice) was missing. One of the relatives arranged for it quickly.

It was all set.

The big white vehicle was waiting outside their gate.

The daughter was escorted by flocks of relatives.

The engine ignited and the car started moving. Her daughter was finally leaving.

Madhumita stared at her daughter. She stared ceaselessly…like there was no tomorrow.

Her son-in-law pulled Madhumita close and she plunged into an unfathomable tornado of tears and tremours. Her vision blurred. All she could hear was the sound “Bolo hori hori bol” as the white vehicle carrying her daughter headed towards the crematorium.  


Saturday, 2 November 2013

Happy D.I.Yali

I have been going through a long stretch of ‘no-time-for–myself’ mode. And it just refused to stop. Like Arnab Goswami’s insightful observations, like this year’s Kolkata-monsoon. The maid made a Mr. India act for the past one month, the laptop went into coma and I had one ‘as-long-as-the-Kharagpur-Railway-Platform’ list of things that made me upset. One of them was the gold price. With the brother-in-law’s wedding round the corner, visiting the gold shop introduced me to a new reality yesterday. Each one of them lining up Gariahat Road seemed like Goddess Kali with invisible Khargas (bent sword), slashing our heads ruthlessly. The long queues infront of gold shops were like garlands of human heads hanging around her neck. : (

But then, bad moods, thankfully, are like fruit-flavoured lip glosses. I lick them off whenever I want to and they don’t get to last too long.

Every year, pre-Diwali, I make candles for home. Yesterday at 11 o’ clock at night, it dawned on me that I have made none this year. And, then, I did. (Thankfully, my crafts-drawer had chunks of paraffin wax stored in it). Impromptu ideas do not turn out to be perfect. But they give you happiness….sawwliid happiness, I tell you.

I shall share the easiest Diwali decoration ideas I have pulled off in the past 2-3 years, including this year’s add-ons. (Since I can only make only easy ones, I guess, all of them are easy).
1.      An apple a day:
The Father-in-law is a staunch believer of the above and stacks the refrigerator with the round red fruit to keep doctors away. No, there aren’t any young, handsome doctors in the locality. Yet, I keep forgetting the fruit and they turn brownish, swollen and ugly. Instead of throwing them into the trash bin and inviting ‘kaan-mawla’ from the FIL, I decided to use them as a part of the Diwali décor. (Not an original idea. A home-décor magazine lent its helping hand.) The fruit shaped candles got added….for obvious reasons.

Instruction manual: Scoop out the middle (the seed-portion) and put candles in the apple-tunnel.  : )
  


2.      Dim-light: All you have to do is to save the egg-shells after your omelets. The idea was to make candles in the shells itself. Somehow, I was not too confident and placed small, round candles in the oval chambers instead. 

      Try them. And team them up with your own colourful ideas or with floating birds, like I did.

3.     1-2-cha cha cha: Nothing can be easier than this. These chai-glasses are available with the roadside tea sellers. Three rupees each. Buy them, melt transparent gel wax and pour them in. Your ‘tea-lights’ are ready. 

Okay, please don’t miss the coasters. They are tea-themed too. :D


4.     Phool’s paradise: This one is a phool-on DIY thing. Let me take a deep Ramdev Baba-breath and explain it to you. My mother gifted me a set of scented candles. I kept the molds. (Yes, always always always keep the used candle-molds. They save you when you want to make candles at 1 at night. They saved me last night.)
Making these is easy. So no unsolicited gyaan. Only a few tips: Before the wax dries completely, put the dried flower and leaf on each of them. They get stuck evenly, neatly. (The dried flowers are also homemade. If you have loads of time, use fat books, if not use iron and press them).

Narcissism alert: The parents in law had their bathrooms and kitchen renovated. Pieces of broken tiles have been made into coasters. I have loads of them and don’t get surprised if some reach your place as anniversary or birthday presents. :D


5.    Soupto bashona: The soup bowl was a gift. With a spoon. (how I love these little free nothings) Yesterday, I decided to give it a “chhilo-beral-hoye-gelo-rumal” make-over. The dyes for making coloured candles could not be found. I used my Bindi-powder.   (I thanked my stars for buying a box of these! There was a time when my MIL’s Robin Blue powder adorned my forehead as blue kumkum. :P)


And, here is the soup-cup candle on my table. What also caught my attention today is that 87.5% of my tableware has been gifted by the best friend. But then, why does one keep best friends? Aren’t they meant for these?


(Since this is yesterday’s addition, I shall shamelessly put one photograph extra).



Have a great Diwali and a very happy Kali Pujo, everyone.

Poster Courtesy: My brother-in-law.